“Yes, I was infatuated with you: I am still. No one has ever heightened such a keen capacity of physical sensation in me. I cut you out because I couldn't stand being a passing fancy. Before I give my body, I must give my thoughts, my mind, my dreams. And you weren't having any of those. ”
― Sylvia Plath, The Unabridged Journals of Sylvia Plath
“You think because he doesn't love you that you are worthless. You think that because he doesn't want you anymore that he is right -- that his judgement and opinion of you are correct. If he throws you out, then you are garbage. You think he belongs to you because you want to belong to him. Don't. It's a bad word, 'belong.' Especially when you put it with somebody you love. Love shouldn't be like that. Did you ever see the way the clouds love a mountain? They circle all around it; sometimes you can't even see the mountain for the clouds. But you know what? You go up top and what do you see? His head. The clouds never cover the head. His head pokes through, beacuse the clouds let him; they don't wrap him up. They let him keep his head up high, free, with nothing to hide him or bind him. You can't own a human being. You can't lose what you don't own. Suppose you did own him. Could you really love somebody who was absolutely nobody without you? You really want somebody like that? Somebody who falls apart when you walk out the door? You don't, do you? And neither does he. You're turning over your whole life to him. Your whole life, girl. And if it means so little to you that you can just give it away, hand it to him, then why should it mean any more to him? He can't value you more than you value yourself.”
― Toni Morrison
“And when at last you find someone to whom you feel you can
pour out your soul, you stop in shock at the words you utter— they are so
rusty, so ugly, so meaningless and feeble from being kept in the small cramped
dark inside you so long.”
“I can never read all the books I want; I can never be all
the people I want and live all the lives I want. I can never train myself in
all the skills I want. And why do I want? I want to live and feel all the
shades, tones and variations of mental and physical experience possible in
life. And I am horribly limited.”
― Sylvia Plath
― Sylvia Plath
“And by the way, everything in life is writable about if you
have the outgoing guts to do it, and the imagination to improvise. The worst
enemy to creativity is self-doubt.”
― Sylvia Plath
― Sylvia Plath
“Perhaps when we find ourselves wanting everything, it is
because we are dangerously close to wanting nothing.”
― Sylvia Plath
― Sylvia Plath
“Remember, remember, this is now, and now, and now. Live it,
feel it, cling to it. I want to become acutely aware of all I’ve taken for
granted.”
― Sylvia Plath
― Sylvia Plath
“Can you understand? Someone, somewhere, can you understand
me a little, love me a little? For all my despair, for all my ideals, for all
that - I love life. But it is hard, and I have so much - so very much to
learn.”
― Sylvia Plath, The Journals of Sylvia Plath
― Sylvia Plath, The Journals of Sylvia Plath
“And when at last you find someone to whom you feel you can
pour out your soul, you stop in shock at the words you utter— they are so
rusty, so ugly, so meaningless and feeble from being kept in the small cramped
dark inside you so long.”
― Sylvia Plath, The Unabridged Journals of Sylvia Plath
― Sylvia Plath, The Unabridged Journals of Sylvia Plath
“There is something demoralizing about watching two people
get more and more crazy about each other, especially when you are the only
extra person in the room. It's like watching Paris from an express caboose
heading in the opposite direction--every second the city gets smaller and
smaller, only you feel it's really you getting smaller and smaller and lonelier
and lonelier, rushing away from all those lights and excitement at about a
million miles an hour.”
― Sylvia Plath, The Bell Jar
― Sylvia Plath, The Bell Jar
“I have never found anybody who could stand to accept the
daily demonstrative love I feel in me, and give back as good as I give.”
― Sylvia Plath, The Journals of Sylvia Plath
“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other...Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever” ― Sylvia Plath, The Journals of Sylvia Plath
― Dave Matthews Band
“You couldn't erase the past. You couldn't even change it. But sometimes life offered you the opportunity to put it right.”
― Ann Brashares
“You’re not in love with me, not really, you just love the way I always made you feel. Like you were the center of my world. Because you were. I would have done anything for you.”
― Abby McDonald
― Abby McDonald
“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won't mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever.... connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
― C. JoyBell C.
“I'm unpredictable, I never know where I'm going until I get there, I'm so random, I'm always growing, learning, changing, I'm never the same person twice. But one thing you can be sure of about me; is I will always do exactly what I want to do.”
― C. JoyBell C.
― C. JoyBell C.
“I'm unpredictable, I never know where I'm going until I get there, I'm so random, I'm always growing, learning, changing, I'm never the same person twice. But one thing you can be sure of about me; is I will always do exactly what I want to do.”
― C. JoyBell C.
“I am my own biggest critic. Before anyone else has criticized me, I have already criticized myself. But for the rest of my life, I am going to be with me and I don't want to spend my life with someone who is always critical. So I am going to stop being my own critic. It's high time that I accept all the great things about me.”
― C. JoyBell C.
― C. JoyBell C.
“You're going to meet many people with domineering personalities: the loud, the obnoxious, those that noisily stake their claims in your territory and everywhere else they set foot on. This is the blueprint of a predator. Predators prey on gentleness, peace, calmness, sweetness and any positivity that they sniff out as weakness. Anything that is happy and at peace they mistake for weakness. It's not your job to change these people, but it's your job to show them that your peace and gentleness do not equate to weakness. I have always appeared to be fragile and delicate but the thing is, I am not fragile and I am not delicate. I am very gentle but I can show you that the gentle also possess a poison. I compare myself to silk. People mistake silk to be weak but a silk handkerchief can protect the wearer from a gunshot. There are many people who will want to befriend you if you fit the description of what they think is weak; predators want to have friends that they can dominate over because that makes them feel strong and important. The truth is that predators have no strength and no courage. It is you who are strong, and it is you who has courage. I have lost many a friend over the fact that when they attempt to rip me, they can't. They accuse me of being deceiving; I am not deceiving, I am just made of silk. It is they who are stupid and wrongly take gentleness and fairness for weakness. There are many more predators in this world, so I want you to be made of silk. You are silk.”
― C. JoyBell C.
― C. JoyBell C.
“I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.”
― Marilyn Monroe
― Marilyn Monroe
“I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.”
― Marilyn Monroe
― Marilyn Monroe
“Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.”
― Marilyn Monroe, Marilyn
― Marilyn Monroe, Marilyn
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